...when I noticed on some left-behind shelves next to one of the beds a couple of rows of old photo albums. I pulled out a stack of albums, sat on the bed, and started looking at the pictures, ...of people I knew, people I didn't know,
...and other peoples' kids. After a while Tom came into the bedroom looking for me. "Who's getting the photo albums?" I asked him. "Those go to Mary Jane," he replied, referring to his sister. At that moment Mary Jane entered the bedroom. "Are you getting the photo albums?" I asked her. "No, Donald gets those," said Mary Jane, referring to one of their other brothers. A little later Donald came into the bedroom. "You're getting the photo albums, then?" I asked him. "Me?" Donald asked. "Gee, I don't know...does anybody else want them?" "I do!" said I. I asked if I could have the albums, at least for a while, until someone else wanted them. No one objected. When we returned home laden with the photo albums, which are still sitting on the buffet (or whatever this eclectic piece of second-hand furniture sitting in my living room is called), …Tom mused that photographs are really of interest only to the people who snapped them and maybe to the next generation or two because after that nobody knows anymore – or subsequently cares about – the people or places in the pictures.
Not that there don't exist old photographs of archival quality or of interest to genealogists, but these are the exceptions among the albums or boxes or – from now on - memory cards and laptops full of unremarkable photos that end up being left-overs of peoples’ ordinary lives. Still, for those of us who’ve lived for many rotations of the earth around the sun, our old photos are little time machines taking us back to the younger times of the people we know or knew, ...those we care or cared about, ...ourselves, …and we look and look at these younger times, transfixed by the bittersweet wonder of it all.
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justin
2/11/2016 03:48:29 pm
awesome!
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Patti
2/12/2016 03:59:26 pm
Thanks, Justin!
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Rikke Olsen
2/11/2016 05:12:52 pm
I so relate to this. It is bittersweet to read your blog. Touches places deep within the heart. I am glad you got the photos...at least for now. I am the keeper of photos in my family, it seems.
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Patti
2/12/2016 04:01:47 pm
Good for you, Rikke - some of us just have the archivist gene! did you see the comment below from Anne? She suggests that we should leave the albums our where everyone can look at them - good idea, no?
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Tracy
2/11/2016 08:24:04 pm
Those pictures sure made me smile, as I sit here with baby Graham! Thanks for posting!
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Patti
2/12/2016 04:03:05 pm
Glad you're enjoying, Tracy! I can't wait to meet sweet little Graham!
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AnnO.
2/12/2016 08:28:16 am
When asked, "What would you grab if there was a fire?" quite a few of my older relatives would respond with photos. Yet so few of these folks would actually sit down and look at their photos, or share them with younger generations. Their photo albums stayed tucked safely away, as if preserving the photos might preserve the person or memory. Finally, the photos get passed down to people who haven't got a clue as to what is special about each picture.
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Patti
2/12/2016 04:05:56 pm
Ann, you are so right about keeping the albums tucked away! But yes, what a great idea, we should put those pics out for everyone to look at! That inspires me as to where I might put these albums - and all my others!
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