My daughter Maria comes from a Christian background while her husband Justin's family is Jewish. Justin and Maria were married under a canopy in a Christian-Jewish ceremony officiated by a Lutheran pastor and a rabbi.
Often incorporated into people's concerns over the children's religious upbringing was how their parents would handle the holidays that overlap, Passover and Easter, Christmas and Hanukkah.
Maria and Justin's children love Hanukkah. And they love Christmas.
Young children can do this effortlessly.
When does it all change? And why?